July is here! Oh what a glorious month it can be. Are you ready for it?

June was so very intense. Many things began to shift and change within ourselves and in our lives. What happened for you? Did relationships shift and/or fall away? Are you finally tired of some things being the way that they are and ready to do something about it? Or did the energies of June throw you into more despair?

The energies in June put change into motion for all of us yet we each may have a different experience. In July we will start to see the seeds of this change take hold. What doesn’t work will not work anymore, in any way. What is not for our highest good will no longer exist and will fall away. This is truly a glorious time indeed.

Many relationships have started to shift now as change was greatly needed in this area. This happens for a couple of reasons.  Aspects of those relationships no longer served you so either the relationship is starting to fall away or that person may not be in your life to such a large degree. Other relationships have experienced shifts in the other direction due to letting go of patterns, negativity and old beliefs. As a result, these relationships are healthier. This will continue from this point on and ultimately it’s all good!

I often hear people say they are tired of the same old, same old. People are going through a lot right now and are weary from nothing shaking loose. June brought that weariness to the forefront and you may now be very motivated to consciously make change and take action! If this speaks to you, the choices you now make in this direction will bring pleasing results. As you see this dynamic happening in your life, you will be inspired to continue making conscious choices and taking deliberate action. This is what life is about! You have chosen to become the author of your life instead of it being written for you by other people or by circumstance. That is the change that was needed!

If this period has left you in more despair, first of all, take care of yourself. Seek help if you need it. Get support. Engaging in self care is very important right now. Second, get honest with yourself on what is going on in your life and how much responsibility you are taking for your life. Do you blame other people or circumstances for your unhappiness? Are you constantly complaining or criticizing people or situations? Due to the energies of June, it will be more uncomfortable to stay in this space. It will become downright intolerable. Surely this is not what you want!

Take responsibility for your life. It is your responsibility and yours alone. Create a support system, get help when needed along the way but recognize that no one is responsible for the state of your life but you. Don’t blame yourself here, just own it so you can make change! Pay more attention to your actions and reactions and less to the actions of others. It’s not about what anyone is doing “to” you. The only thing that matters is what you are doing, how you are responding to life and the action you are taking. You are not powerless. In fact, you are extremely powerful. So claim this, let go of the blame game, and start creating the life you want. No one can do it for you and no one should. It’s YOURS!!

Now that July is here, we will begin to see the seeds of change growing before our eyes. Be aware, be honest with yourself, take responsibility for your life. Take care of yourself, have more fun and be kind to others. Things are in motion now. It is up to you to make it great and I know you can! Do you want to? I certainly hope so.